MARRIAGES ARE NOT MADE IN HEAVEN BUT ON EARTH
Marriages are not made in heaven, they are made on earth by earthlings for earthly reasons. The first priority is money, it may be a property, well paid job or a profitable business. The couple concerned fall into line without bothering to find out whether or not the person they are committing themselves to will make a good lifelong companion. At the time they are asked to give the consent they are adolescents, their sex urges are of explosive dimensions and they are eagerly looking forward to exploring each other’s bodies. So pass the first few months. In that time, the bride of yesterday finds that she is pregnant. Then the sex urge begins to abate. Even if they use contraceptives, sex-when-you-want-it begins losing its urgency. It becomes a routine affair. People they ignored during their frenetic physical involvement with each other start becoming subject of sexual fantasies. No matter how close and intimately involved a married couple may be, the possibility of a pleasant diversion in an adulterous relation is never far from their minds. When an opportunity guaranteeing secrecy presents itself, they succumb to it.