THE MISERY OF LOVE...ALL LOVERS
Two individuals are finite beings, and hence their union cannot be infinite, cannot be forever. And this is the pain, this is the misery of all matrimony, of all love, that we cannot unite with the person forever. We unite together for a moment, but again we fall back to a distance, the gap enters. The distance creates pain, it hurts, and so lovers are in continuous state of despair over it. Slowly, slowly it begins to appear as if the other person is creating this distance. Hence the anger, irritation over the other begins to rise.
But those who know would say two people are two separate individuals. They can force a momentary meeting but cannot meet forever. This is the very pain and hurt that gives birth to a constant conflict between lovers, that begins a tussle with the very person one loves. A tension, a strife, a feeling of aversion creeps in, because it begins to seem as if the other doesn’t want to merge and so the merger does not become complete. But no individual is to blame for this. two person cannot meet on the level of FOREVER.