VIRGINITY- THE DEBATE CONTINUES....
In one of my conversations with Guruji, we were having a discussion on Virginity and relationships.
I said, “Though I had been in relationships, I am a Virgin ,Father.I have never entered my dick in any of my gfs.
Father gave a disgusting look to me.
He took a deep breath and said, ok fine, so for you sex is all about penetration right. ok I ask you a question.
I said, Bring it on.
He asked, The girl you are about to marry had an intimate relationship with another guy. She did everything except sex, will you accept her ?
I for a while got blank and didn’t knew what to say.
He teased, what happened my friend, she is a virgin, so why are you thinking so much.
I kept mum and thought for a while and said, I won’t.
He shot back, why…why not…she is virgin then what problem do you have ?
I said, I don’t know.
He said, its not about sex or intimacy, its about acceptance, its about being faithful to your partner. How would a woman who has already given her heart to someone before marriage accept you or how would you accept a woman after marriage, if you have already given your heart to someone.
His words made me think deep, deeper and much deeper…………