NARCISSIST TRAITS. IS HE/SHE A NARCISSIST-PART 1

How to spot a Narcissist:

-Nothing will ever be his/her fault

-He/She will never be there for you. No matter what. Never.

-He/She will always be the "tragic" victim.

- He/She will never see you, your need, your love, your loneliness, your pain, your accomplishments. Everything will be about them.

-Its always their way or the highway.

-He/She will never ever admit being wrong.

-He/She will be angry with you every single day.

-Silent treatments and neglect can and do go on for weeks at a time. Especially if you point out one of their flaws.

- The world will always revolve around them

-While you do everything possible for your relationship, they do nothing.

-Their love is Pathological.

-Lack of empathy.

- Hypersensitivity to insults or imagined insults.

-Vulnerability to shame rather than guilt. They believe they are Superhuman and can rely on the ability to be superior. They are more concerned with the act then the consequences.

-Haughty body language means being arrogant or full of pride.  Someone who thinks their shit dont stink.

-Flattery towards people who admire or and affirm them- Narcissist are nice to people who admire them for their abilities or socially accept them into their "pack" anyone else they dont want nothing to do with could care less about thier opinion or they dont care.

-Detesting those who dont admire them. Those who dont admire them will not be included in their cirlce. They hang around with people who glorify them. No matter what story you have to tell or how awesome it is they tell you a story about someone they know or something they did and it will always be better then your story. They have to be center of attention. No one can have or be better than them.

-Using other people without considering the cost of doing so. They convince a Friend to commit a crime for their benefit without feeling guilty at all when they get caught and sent to jail. They probably wont even show up to visit or might not consider you a Friend anymore. They might look down on you for getting caught.

- Ego can be bruised easily.

-Avoid telling the person he/she is a Narcissist directly. They will withdraw from you and possibly even resent you for the accusation, Leave this up to a Professional.

-Sacarasm is the Narcissist specialty, not to mention spite. Lacking love and pleasure , they dont have a good reason for anything they do and thinks everyone else is just like them, except their honest and the rest of us is hypocrites. Nothing real is ever perfect enough to satisify them so they are constantly complaining or criticizing to the point of verbal abuse or insult. They have a negative, gloomy, cynical outlook on life.