REAL MEN HATE CHEATERS AND LIARS
You think
this is not gonna work….she was always dishonest with you….now to move on with
her was a painful ordeal……..you decide to breakup….There is no other choice
left….enough is enough….you confront her…..and tell her you are breaking up
with her…….she breaks down into tears…and becomes inconsolable…she pleads not
to leave her like this….she confesses her love a thousand times….and reminds
you of all those beautiful moments…..but you are adamant to throw her out of
your life……and walk away…but her tears continue…she disturbs all your friends
and keeps telling them that how much she loves you…now all your friends are at
her side…she keeps bugging you..texting you….calling you…blackmailing you
emotionally….until you have a change of heart…until you are convinced that yes
she loves you so much….and that’s where you do the mistake of letting her get
back into your life…..
Oh dear Friend...for all this days…where was her love…why
is she showering so much love when you told her that you would leave her…it’s
not because she loves you…or she would miss you……..its because..the feminist in her is hurt…that
female ego….she never thought that you would leave her…she is taken by
surprise…and it’s a shock for her…..now that you have let her again back into
your life…she is all set to take revenge……now that she knows that you can leave
her on any given day…she is all set to hurt you….the plan is set in her mind
and she is ready to destroy and mind you and
she would show no mercy…….she is no more in love with you….she is all
set to show you how good an actor she is….
For the first few days she will act
that she loves you so much and that you are the most valuable person in her
life….and then her behavior would change a bit….she would get weird with each passing
day….she would get less romantic and would become more formal…she would skip
dates and make reasons not to meet you…she would hang out more with her
friends….her friends would start ignoring you…and you would have no clue what’s
going on…..she won’t reply to some of your messages…she will skip your
calls….and every time you confront her..she would have a readymade
reason.....you would fight with her…..argue with her….but no use…..She will one
day….call you and inform you that she is
breaking up with you……her voice would be firm and her decision would be
final….
You are left confused and hurt…you are puzzled at this sudden turn of
events…she will stop receiving your calls…she will not respond to your
texts….you constantly bug her….you cry…you beg….but no use……you look for help
but there is none….you try to contact her friends but you realize her friends
were never close to you….you ask your friends for help…one by one they all call
her..but they are already put In her blacklist…..every time you talk to her…she
will insult you….rebuke you….mock you and will humiliate you to her heart fill……..you
are left hurt…bruised…..and sour…….you have no idea….what went wrong….and then
you see her with a new guy…they both look so happy with each other…and that’s the final nail that she forces into your coffin….and you are
dead....and you still have no clue what went wrong ?...
My dear
friend…everything was going fine till you decided to let her back into your
life….her tears were a mirage and she had already set the trap in which you
fell….she wanted to get back to you to take her sweet revenge…because you dared
to walk away from her life…….it was all set in her mind….No matter what you
do…she is not going to come back....If she ever loved you…she wouldn’t have
walked away at the first place…there was no love at all…she was just using you
for her own means….. the only way you can come out of this mess is to let go
her…..the more you chase her…the more exhausted you will feel…because she won’t
come back….Don’t put false hopes in her…you are just wasting your energy….Get a
life…focus your energy on yourself…there are a lot of better things you can
do….life is too big and such things won’t matter in the long run….chill man…you
will face worse situations than this in future…
Guys
remember one thing…once a cheater…always a cheater…..if you have strong
evidence that she cheated on you…if your instincts say that she is not good for
you…if your conscience doesn’t makes you feel guilty…..then my dear friend…..throw
her out of your life…wipe each and every moment…every memory you had with
her….before those moments become toxic for you…be brutal and show no
mercy…never get carried away by her tears…every time she cries..just
remember..she is crying because her ego is hurt not because you left her……Grow
a spine and stick to your decision….Real men never tolerate cheaters and
liars….Run away from her as soon as possible…before she makes a way Into your
life and destroys you…….
I do agree that real men hates cheaters and liars, but then I am not that much in support of what you have concluded in this blog. I guess it might not be true as well...
ReplyDeleteHe he he he....its a personal blog Alok sir.....ofcourse everything may not be true...i just wrote all this on the basis of some relationship experiences that my friends had......and what they told me......Its a big planet sir...nothing is completely true....its all personal experiences...personal observations.....when i am feeling good i write good stuff...when i am angry...i write something that may hurt people.......all depends on mood too
Delete100% agree to your thought Issac, but do remember one thing, you are a blogger and you have a responsibility. Don't write depending on your mood. Or if you are writing something in a bad mood, try to read the same before publishing in a good mood. I guess you understand the point.
DeleteBTW you are absolutely right that "Its a big planet sir...nothing is completely true...." :)
i am still learning sir...surely will try to put your advice in practice....:-)
DeleteIf a girl cheats a boy cz she doesn't love him, then she would never pleade him to stay if he decides to leave.All that girl ego nothing z goin to happen, instead she would feel happy that finally he's free, he knew the truth.
ReplyDeleteBut sometimes cheating may also result because of her partners actions, may be he failed to give her emotional support, I knew cheating is cheating in any case, but then when the girl actually says sorry & begs u nt to leave, I think she should be given a second chance(conditions applied-she really is guilty & u knew dat u were busy all d time wen she needed u)
Once cheater, it doesn't mean she will be cheater again..ppl usually learn from their mistakes..I'm sorry if u don't agree with me, but this is my opinion .
you dont have to be sorry for expressing your thoughts...thats your way of thinking...so chill...you may be right.....but till know....what i have seen....giving second chance to a cheater has always been harmful for the person who has been cheated...but ya if your instincts say that the person should be given a second chance....then the chance must be given...for sure...
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