PRE-MARITAL SEX- YES OR NO.....MY ANSWER IS.....

Well Post marital or pre marital…sex is always exciting…isn’t it. You keep thinking of it all the time. It feels so great when you think of it and when you actually do it, how awesome it would be.  So for me it would had been a big yes to Pre-marital sex because sex is wonderful, its awesome and gives me a sense of excitement and it gives the feeling of an adrenaline rush. I feel like having sex with one out of every 3 women. The figure of a women body makes me crazy. The body of a woman is a masterpiece creation and her boobs are weapons of mass destruction. Sex sex, sex oh its such a wonderful thing. The most exciting thing that can happen between a man and a woman, its Sex, sex is so sexy and sex is so wonderful. Aaaaaahhh I am dreaming now….ooooolaaaaallaaaaaaaaa….how great it would be, to thrust into a beautiful woman and feel her body.  It would be so wonderful. I would love to have sex with so many women,  before I get married to someone and get restricted to having sex with my spouse for the rest of my life.  Ummmm I was fantasizing a bit too much…..Sex is great but then sex is not  something you can have with anyone or everyone….after fantasizing too much, lets go for a reality check, we cannot do everything what we like, isn’t it otherwise we all would have been ended up being pornstars, he he he he…

Here are some reality check points:-

1. You cannot have sex with one out of every 3 women unless you are a multimillionaire or an handsome hunk whom girls are crazy for and that’s not the case with me.

2.Sex involves emotions, before having sex, there is a lot of talking involved, there is a lot of dating that takes place, There are so many emotions involved, you start knowing each other so well and then you fall in love, get intimate, you have sex. From here two things can happen, either you marry her. Well and good or else  you will have to dump her someday or may be she will dump you some day and the breakup will leave you both with bitter memories. You cannot get over her for months, may be years. Even if you do, you cannot forget her completely for the rest of your life. She will remain somewhere in a corner of your heart, somewhere in your subconscious mind, her memories ready to haunt you.

3. So next comes having sex with prostitutes, it won’t involve any emotions as such and you would be spared of the emotional trauma but then it would be too mechanical. Moreover the woman would  be just offering her body not her heart nor her soul, the whole thing would be so boring because body without soul is lifeless. if its sex that you want, ofcourse sex with prostitutes is a good option but it’s a no for me. I cannot have sex without emotions.

4. So next comes strangers, sex with strangers. It can only happen if two strangers feel a strong sexual urge for each other and both are at an isolated place. Then there is a high chance, they will end up having sex. But then such situations happen in movies or in the sexual fantasies of men and women. This days it does happen in real life too, I can think on this one, but then who knows it’s a trap, who knows you are being tricked by someone into something very dangerous. Who know’s tomorrow the woman with whom you had sex last night charges you of raping her. So sex with a stranger would be thrilling but dangerous. Either it would be too much fun or too scary.

So you see there are so many complications in having pre-marital sex. When you and your girl are ready, you don’t get a room, when you have a room, you are single.  Now many would say, common, its not that difficult, so many people have pre-marital sex this days, even we have done that, it’s so common and it’s so much fun. Yes it is fun but At what cost, of course when you look into the mirror, you don’t want to call yourself  a sex maniac. Just for the sake of having fun you go around having sex with every woman possible but then what do you gain. Its not going to satisfy your urge in anyway, the more you have, the more you want it. The lust in you keeps growing and you become a slave of sex. You degrade yourself in your own eyes.  If you get caught someday, you will earn a bad name too.

Now people supporting Pre-marital sex would say, it’s a good to have net practice before you get married….ha ha ha ha ha ha…to them I would say firstly I don’t think using women just for having net practice is a great idea..rather cheap idea.

Secondly when you marry a person, you marry her for the whole life, practice as much as you want with her, practice all 69 positions with her, who is stopping you. You have a whole life before you, perfect every sexual move with each other before you breathe your last.

So for me it’s a big no to pre-marital sex. I would rather wait for the one who deserves me, and moreover there are a lot of men out there, who would do anything to get laid with women, I don’t want to be a part of the crowd, and I always love to choose the road less travelled. I would prefer being a man of dignity who honours his body rather than someone who disgraces it. Life is not about sex , its about love, never live for sex but for love. This are my thoughts and you never know they can change too but I will try to stick to them and be strict with myself and control my beastly urges.  Proud to be a virgin….23 years not out…he he he he he…

So readers, Raise your standards and don't sleep with anyone or everyone.... try to avoid pre-marital sex as long as you can, Bite the bait only if its too sexy and too beautiful to be resisted….wink wink…

Peace be with you all…God bless you.....