THE 4 DON'Ts TO MAINTAIN AN IDEAL RELATIONSHIP
As we are into the holy week, I attended a retreat on Tuesday
at my church. The retreat was conducted by a Priest whom I was very fond off.
The retreat revolved around the topic “ AN IDEAL FAMILY AND RELATIONSHIPS IN
MODERN WORLD”. The way he spoke about the realities of life in a sarcastic and
comic manner had everybody in splits that evening. I laughed a lot and learned
a lot that day. I needed an experience like this to feel good, for many
evenings had gone by without smiles and happiness. For a change to laugh
forgetting my problems was a blissful experience.
He listed 4 don’t’s to maintain an ideal relationship. Those
4 dont’s are :-
1- Do not compare
Never compare your partner with others. Believe that your
partner is the best and count him/her as your blessing. Grass on the other side looks greener.
2- Do not compel
Never compel your partner according to your wishes, your
desires. Never force anything on him/her. let them be themselves, accept them
as they are.
3- Do not complain
Don’t keep nagging about all the faults your partner has,
never always keep finding faults in whatever he or she does. Accept them with their flaws and
imperfections because remember even you are not perfect. Be grateful that you
have someone who loves you in your life.
4- Do not condemn
Never curse your dear ones, just let the bad things go. Don’t
hold any grudges and don’t say bad things to happen for them swearing in the
name of our Lord.
At the end of the day, never let small things affect your
big happiness. Let go off mistakes of your love and love them with all your
heart. If ever they hurt you, remember the good moments you had with them and
then you will realize how special they are to you.
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