THE 7 DO'S TO OVERCOME REJECTION


We all have faced rejection in our lives at some point of time, even the greatest men and women ever to be born on earth have faced rejections at some stage of their lives. Rejection is something we cannot avoid, we have to face it someday, sometime at some point of our life. Well so what if a rejection comes our way, what to do, how do we face it. for we have seen rejections destroying the life of many, we have seen rejections shattering the life of many, we have seen rejections leading to suicides. So how do we face rejections,  what should be done before a rejection conquers our mind and we are left moaning and crying.

Here are 7 do’s to do when you get rejected:-

1. Be ready to work hard

Right here, right now start something new. Begin a new beginning, a lot of chances will come your way, they surely will. Have faith in yourself. Try to forget what happened and focus on what you have now.

2.The future has a lot for you

Forget the loss that you had and prepare yourself for greater victories. Definitely what you will get would be much much better, beautiful and wonderful than what you expect .

3. Be enthusiastic in life

Have some energy, some enthusiasm in your life. Never let your enthusiasm, your love for life fade away. Do what you love to do and when you do this, you won’t have to take permission from others to be happy.
What is yours, you will get it for sure

4. What is destined for you, you will get it for sure. 

 You will get it, no matter what happens, in some way or other. Your blessings will reach you for the parcel has been sent by God almighty.

5. Identify the goodness,that good thing in you

Rejection is important, but not that important. Never let it get into your brains, why give so much importance to it. Get up and move on. Look into your ownself, recognize that good thing, that gift, that talent in you. Push your limits, never restrict yourself on the basis of what people say. Feel yourself, experience yourself.

6. That’s not the end of your life…

You are still breathing, so surely the end hasn’t come and if you are reading this, then definitely you have a long way to go. Rejection is not an end, but a new beginning. For its after a rejection, you try finding new prospects, new chances.

7. What is not your’s, just let it go…

It can be anything like behavior of someone who keeps insulting you and make you feel like shit or a decision taken by someone which you cannot change, if you cannot change it, then let it go. Don’t try to keep hold of it, for it will only fill your mind with frustration. The faster you realize it, the better it is.
Special note :- and I am writing it not because I am a champ or a winner, just like you all, I am a rejected piece he he he he….. and I am writing it not because I care for you but  for my ownself, to make myself feel good. so if I can write this, you too can read this and make yourself feel better…he he he…

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